I’m taking my oral exam at 3:30pm this afternoon and once I pass it, I’ll be a fully certified life coach through iPEC Coaching. I’ve had a moment of reflection this morning that I wanted to share with all my friends. Last year when I was making the choice to sign up with iPEC I read in their brochure that the final exam consisted of coaching a coach and having it taped for the staff to assess afterwards. Self-doubt and fear immediately crept in. I thought about when I was 17 years old being trained as a waitress at a pizzeria and my manager was standing beside me watching me interact with customers, listening to my every word. I remembered feeling so self-conscious being watched, desperately wanting my manager to disappear. That fear was triggered again last year when I thought about a recorded oral exam. Even though I felt that fear in my body, I made the choice to trust that I would learn the necessary skills in a supportive community, and then when the time would come to take my final exam, I would stand in confidence.
That day is today, and as I reviewed my course material this morning, no fear crept up. I just felt blessed to have learned all that I have this year, and I reflected on how much I’ve grown. On my first day of my coach training, I wrote in an Intention exercise, “I am fully confident that I’m going to be a great life coach.” When I wrote that statement, the unspoken phrase that followed was, “I hope….” I now know that I’m a great coach, and I also know that it’s not about me, it’s about helping my clients know their full potential as I’ve begun to know mine. I also wrote down, “This weekend, I’m going to make four friends and we are going to be each other’s support network.” I made MANY more friends than four and widened my support network in spades! If any of you, my dear Campus Calm friends and family, have a goal–have a dream–that you want to make come true, ask yourself, “What would it look like to acknowledge my fear, and take the leap of faith anyway?” I promise you that in the words of iPEC, “Each of us is greater and wiser than we appear to be.” See and stand in your full potential today my friends.
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